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Live Your Life The Way You Want To Live It

Welcome to sycatsy's blog! I will begin my blog with a topic that most of you are familiar with and everyone has definitely experience this at least once in their life. Have you ever gotten too attached to someone? Are there moments in your life where you see yourself holding back the words you want to say to someone? 

 I have experienced those moments before and honestly speaking, it does not feel good, it does not feel right. It is crucial for you to know and be aware of your self worth. Each one of you deserve every right to speak out your thoughts. Every single human being in this Earth deserve happiness regardless of age, gender, race or religion. Do not ever let anyone deprive you of your own happiness and stop you from being yourself. When you are honest and you speak what is on your mind, that is not rude, that is you being real. People will never stop judging so let it all out, say your thoughts out loud as that shows how you are different from everyone else who live to impress others.

 It is very normal to care for someone, generally to the people you love. Then what about the people who do not really crave for your attention, your existence in their life? What if these kind of people are the ones you get too attached to? They only come to you when in need of favors but when you need support, they are nowhere around you. "There is a difference between someone who wants you and someone who would do anything to keep you", a quote I came across. When you are often there for someone, they stop appreciating you as it slowly turns into an expectation. The best thing to do is to stay away from these people as only your absence can make them feel and realize your presence. However, it is often hard to stay away from these people when you gotten too attached to them. That is when you have to know that you deserve to be treated well and they are not worth your time. If they really need you in their life, they will fight for you and if you are often feeling unsure whether they need you or not, then that already give you an answer. It will be tough to get over them but let me tell you, it is a blessing in disguise. Lastly, a reminder for everyone of you who are having hard times currently!

 Reminder: You can get through this, you will get through this, the pain and hardships you experience now only last for awhile, I promise.








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