Welcome to sycatsy's blog! Now is a new year and looking back at 2017, my life has been filled with bittersweet memories. Like a roller coaster ride, I face ups and downs of what life can offer, a mixture of extreme happiness to gloomy days and honestly, its all worth it. It is yet another memorable year for me. You, who have gone through tough times throughout 2017, I am proud of how far you have come and may a new year changes you to be a better person than before.
Love, in different forms, is a powerful feeling which in any case, one must bear the consequences and responsibility that comes with it. It is what keeps us awake all day long, through the darkest days and silent nights. We crave for love, acceptance and the longing affection from another, that sometimes may resort to desperation, doing whatever it takes to obtain the love we desire. Desperation is deemed as normal in this modern day with people willing to end everything even their lives when they experience unrequited love. A twist in Shakespeare's poetic line of "till death do us part" where in this case, death comes earlier than expected.
"What if I love someone but I know that I am never going to get the person? " A question posed by a friend of mine which sparks interest. Love is defined as a strong feeling of affection, fondness towards someone. Despite how good it sounds, it can be dangerous when the lines of intimacy are blurred, or when a friendship is mistaken as something more and there is no going back. Short, subtle moments like his/her skin brushing against yours or the brief eye contact between each other are enough to quicken one's heartbeat and shiver with nervousness. Love is felt emotionally, not only in physical terms, which makes it tougher to get over or run away from. Feelings cannot just die within a day without any reason. It is not as easy as that, it has never been as easy as that. The concept of 'persevere' in relation with love is well known in movies and books. Not giving up in love and chasing after a person like your life depended on it and continue till there is nothing left in you.
However, there is always a finish line to a race and once you reach the finish line, you have to accept it no matter the outcome. If the result does not go the way you want it to be, toughen yourself up and be better. Just like the chasing game in love, if the other does not feel the same way as you, stop the chasing. There is a limit, you will get tired and cry over and over again till your eyes are sore. The cycle of sadness and feeling unworthy repeats. You deserve better than this, everyone deserve happiness. It is okay to feel heartbroken at the start, but know that your tears are not worth for someone who does not even try to know you sincerely. Accept that it is not meant to be and there is someone for you, the right one. So, with every teardrop, every pain in the heart, get better, surround yourself with people who makes you feel positive and honestly, live life well. You will cure from the pain, do not lose hope and life will surprise you in every way possible. With every hardship comes ease.
Reminder: stay happy, be happy, live happily, die happily.
Love, in different forms, is a powerful feeling which in any case, one must bear the consequences and responsibility that comes with it. It is what keeps us awake all day long, through the darkest days and silent nights. We crave for love, acceptance and the longing affection from another, that sometimes may resort to desperation, doing whatever it takes to obtain the love we desire. Desperation is deemed as normal in this modern day with people willing to end everything even their lives when they experience unrequited love. A twist in Shakespeare's poetic line of "till death do us part" where in this case, death comes earlier than expected.
"What if I love someone but I know that I am never going to get the person? " A question posed by a friend of mine which sparks interest. Love is defined as a strong feeling of affection, fondness towards someone. Despite how good it sounds, it can be dangerous when the lines of intimacy are blurred, or when a friendship is mistaken as something more and there is no going back. Short, subtle moments like his/her skin brushing against yours or the brief eye contact between each other are enough to quicken one's heartbeat and shiver with nervousness. Love is felt emotionally, not only in physical terms, which makes it tougher to get over or run away from. Feelings cannot just die within a day without any reason. It is not as easy as that, it has never been as easy as that. The concept of 'persevere' in relation with love is well known in movies and books. Not giving up in love and chasing after a person like your life depended on it and continue till there is nothing left in you.
However, there is always a finish line to a race and once you reach the finish line, you have to accept it no matter the outcome. If the result does not go the way you want it to be, toughen yourself up and be better. Just like the chasing game in love, if the other does not feel the same way as you, stop the chasing. There is a limit, you will get tired and cry over and over again till your eyes are sore. The cycle of sadness and feeling unworthy repeats. You deserve better than this, everyone deserve happiness. It is okay to feel heartbroken at the start, but know that your tears are not worth for someone who does not even try to know you sincerely. Accept that it is not meant to be and there is someone for you, the right one. So, with every teardrop, every pain in the heart, get better, surround yourself with people who makes you feel positive and honestly, live life well. You will cure from the pain, do not lose hope and life will surprise you in every way possible. With every hardship comes ease.
Reminder: stay happy, be happy, live happily, die happily.
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